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Is Anger Hereditary? | Anger Management

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Want to get a grip on your Anger? Check out these resources: Beyond Anger: How to Free Yourself from the Grip of Anger: http://amzn.to/1VFo0CA The Anger Workbook: http://amzn.to/1FXmxpi Anger Management For Dummies: http://amzn.to/1VFokRC The Cow in the Parking Lot: A Zen Approach to Overcoming Anger: http://amzn.to/1QZTMcb Anger Management for Everyone: Seven Proven Ways to Control Anger: http://amzn.to/1Om49ro Watch more Anger Management videos: http://www.howcast.com/videos/516021-Is-Anger-Hereditary-Anger-Management Often times I asked if angry parent are going to produce angry children? While there isn't specific evidence that a particular biological factor is necessarily genetic in nature that sort of guarantees a child is going to be angry, there may be some temperamental things that are passed on. Things like general neuroticism or inattention that might make angry or aggressive behaviors more likely in children who have parents with those kind of traits that might be biological in nature. But for the most part what's critical and it does matter who your parents are are the angry behaviors that are displayed or modeled by those parents. That children watch and experience. So there is lots of evidence that in the laboratory and we see this clinically as well that parents who demonstrate how anger and aggression might work to coerce or get compliance from their children those children might learn those strategies in their own lives dealing with peers. Likewise if someone has an anger management problem and not are they demonstrating that. They're likely not utilizing strategies that are sort of effective for coping with anger. And so they're not modeling the pro social tools that children need to learn. And what we've seen by some studies done decades ago is that children in fact do learn readily by adults modeling these behaviors. One of the original studies was done on something, a toy that many of us might of grown up with called the Bobo Doll. Which was basically this inflatable clown toy that's punched. And what happened is we actually, the social scientists that did this study, they actually had children observe an adult come into the room and punch the doll. And simply from watching the adult they learned to take on this behavior. They didn't have to be reinforced for punching something themselves. Merely by watching an adult do it they adopted that strategy. So without question certainly the way families interact, the kind of models they provide, has a huge implications for the kinds of anger management strategies and aggressive behaviors that a child might adopt.
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ريم العلي (9 days ago)
اشتركو بقناتي❤
Naughty Hotdog (10 days ago)
Hoodrats make hoodrats 🤔
L. Gall (11 days ago)
I was raised with a very abusive parent on a daily basis. Somehow I have not learned that behavior and am quiet the opposite with my kids. I'm very gentle, nurturing, encouraging and loving to my girls. Honestly I don't understand why I was treated so cruelly but am completely grateful I did not turn out anything like my mother.
The Crow Time (11 days ago)
Can you put subtitles translated into the Spanish?
Afzal Abbas (11 days ago)
If u get angry then don't talk just start drinking cold water or u can start counting numbers. Ur anger will go away soon Inshallah
Afzal Abbas (11 days ago)
You the only one who can control your anger and practice will help u to control ur anger.
Sheikh Sameer (11 days ago)
May be or may not be. I think may not everytime.
Genes absolutely make a difference in temperament
Kaur Puneet (11 days ago)
I am veryyyyyyyyyy sensitive , get angry really fast , get irritated by little things , small things that don't matter to people , are huge for me , small small things / words can make my heart hurt a Lot . I am crazy . I know that . Planning to transport myself to another far away planet , till then thanks for tolerating me dear Earth . Thanks . 😓
Zip Draw (11 days ago)
then eat meat. maybe you are iritable because you are not eating sweet sweet meat. :P naw I'm just kidding, but I feel ya, and I hope you find peace. Keep being awesome.
Kaur Puneet (11 days ago)
Alexandra Tejada thank you ! 😊
Kaur Puneet (11 days ago)
Alexandra Tejada Hey! Now that I think of it my uncle stressed on doing at least 2 minute meditation session twice a day ! Slowly increase your time . *:P you guys!* He also wrote ' you are very sensitive , really need to pay attention on diet , don't lose your temper , minimum 5 litres of water a day ( I barely manage one or two ) because your stomach is heated up , no cold drinks ( as in Coke , soda ) for you , normal room temperature water . Haven't had Coke etc in months but living on room temp water in summers.....ice cold water is really tempting 😓 Thanks again! 👍😁
GunFuMaster (11 days ago)
Both my parents have highly explosive temper, and looking at them I kind of veered toward the opposite.
Kaur Puneet (11 days ago)
GunFuMaster Brilliant! That is nice .
Jelly Rolls (12 days ago)
Well if you say hereditary by a technicality then yeah. If a person lives or is around a family member a lot where they have anger issues one can develop it too.
XxIVORY ANIMALSxX (12 days ago)
I......nvm
Liquid Nitrogen (12 days ago)
My parents get very angry , and I’m autistic
Kaitlin Kal Lee (12 days ago)
God, I hope not. 😂
bench clay b evardo (12 days ago)
OMG im so early
Ami's Cooking (12 days ago)
Nice to know these info, great video 👍😊👌
Afzal Abbas (12 days ago)
Anger is prohibited in rules of Islam. So sweet is Islam religion. Thanks to almighty God
Korsion (11 days ago)
That is just being ignorant.
Afzal Abbas (11 days ago)
Korsion no it's not u just check principles of Islam
Korsion (11 days ago)
No, that is reality.
Afzal Abbas (11 days ago)
Korsion that's your false perception
pamela furtunato (12 days ago)
queria entender
Lautaro Flores (12 days ago)
JAJAJA KE
Beauty Of Nature (12 days ago)
👍
Aguayo Fav (12 days ago)
Clicked on this quickly, this connects to me on another level

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